feat: 实现关注系统 + 通知侧边栏分类 TAB + 点赞聚合通知

- 新增关注系统：UserFollow 模型、FollowService（toggle/status/列表隐私控制）
- User 新增 FollowersCount/FollowingCount/FollowListPublic/NotifyPrefs 字段
- Space 页面增加四态关注按钮（关注/已关注/回关/已互粉）+ 粉丝/关注数链接
- 新增 /space/:uid/followers 和 /space/:uid/following 列表页
- 新增 NotifyFollow/NotifyLikeAggregated 通知类型
- ReactionService 点赞时写入 daily_like_summary，访问时生成聚合通知
- FollowService 关注时触发 NotifyFollow 通知
- 消息中心侧边栏升级为分类 TAB（全部/系统通知/@艾特/点赞/关注）
- NotificationService 新增 ListByCategory 按分类分页查询

cmd/server/main.go

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ func main() {
 	if err != nil {
 		log.Fatalf("连接数据库失败: %v", err)
 	}
-	if err := db.AutoMigrate(&model.User{}, &model.AuditSubmission{}, &model.SiteSetting{}, &model.Notification{}, &model.Post{}, &model.UserCheckIn{}, &model.UserTask{}, &model.EnergyLog{}, &model.PostEnergizeLog{}, &model.DailyExpSummary{}, &model.Comment{}, &model.CommentMention{}, &model.CommunityFund{}, &model.FundLog{}, &model.PostLike{}, &model.PostDislike{}); err != nil {
+	if err := db.AutoMigrate(&model.User{}, &model.AuditSubmission{}, &model.SiteSetting{}, &model.Notification{}, &model.Post{}, &model.UserCheckIn{}, &model.UserTask{}, &model.EnergyLog{}, &model.PostEnergizeLog{}, &model.DailyExpSummary{}, &model.Comment{}, &model.CommentMention{}, &model.CommunityFund{}, &model.FundLog{}, &model.PostLike{}, &model.PostDislike{}, &model.UserFollow{}, &model.DailyLikeSummary{}); err != nil {
 		log.Fatalf("数据库迁移失败: %v", err)
 	}